Someone knows why I would be leaving our church, if I decide to go. I don't like a hostile environment. I don't like being compared to others, embarrassed or singled out. I don't like being made to feel small. Simply baptizing Belle, which is one issue this person has with me, won't solve our differences. I can set boundaries and tell the person to back off. I can also travel two miles to another church. Whatever I decide will take commitment and effort.